~ Treasure It, While You Still Have It ~

It's hard to trust your loved ones when you've fallen into the trap of love far too many times. Of course, there are people who’ve been through great experiences in life to call it a fairy tale and hope of having a happily ever after with their better half, and I too hope for it to last for them.

However, this isn’t about those. This is about the ones who ‘thought’ of love as a wonderful thing, been through it, and learned that it ain’t such a wonderful thing after all the misery and pain. This is about the ones who no longer believe in love, nor trust someone else to love them again. This is about the ones who’ve suffered in so called ‘love’. The ones who gave up on their life and dreams to give their loved one the world that they desired, yet ended up feeling like shit.

It’s these people that’d be hard for you to love, and if you aren’t ready for all the DRAMA that you’re gonna have to face with them, then don’t you dare move even a step closer to them, for it’s going to make things even worse for them.

You may give it your best, only to find out that it isn’t for them. You know why? Because they’ve been through that stage. Where everything is magical, and you want to keep talking to them 24/7 and then to the stage where it all falls apart.

It no longer excites them to see your best, for they have been from that best to the worst. It all began in the same ways every other time too, yet it only took few years for it to change from that to something they never thought.

No, they won’t believe it when you say that they’d be in the center of your attention at all the times, for they’ve heard it all only to realize that they gave up on their freedom in hope of spending their whole life with that one person who told them they’d be on the top of their priority list.

They’ve tried being that perfect someone, making sure that every little move they made was accepted by the one they loved. The way they dressed, the way they looked, the friends they had, the people they talked to, the things they cooked, the way they walked, the way they talked, the way they acted, the way they ate, the way they lived, and what not? They’ve tried being that perfect someone every single day in the past, only to find out that they have never been good enough, accepted or even noticed.

Few are the lucky ones who thought of love as a fairy tale where everything just falls into place with time and got the exact same thing in that happy ending. If you’re one who’ve taken it that far, hold onto it. Treasure it. Losing the trust in love and not knowing whether you’d ever be able to allow someone else into your life is one of the worst of feelings one can ever experience.

~ She's Trying Her Best To Recover ~

She was this confident girl, who thought she could conquer the world.

She was taught to stand up for herself at times when no one would be there to lift her up.

She was this girl, who fought for her rights and helped other people to get theirs.

She was taught that no one can ever take control over her or define the beauty within her. 

But then, all of it just collapsed one day.

She became the one person she thought of never becoming.

She believed it so easily when another man defined beauty for her.

She let him use her over and over again at times she wished to end it right there, for which she hated herself.

She was told that she ain't pretty, attractive or beautiful at all.

She believed she was ugly, fat and every other thing that people would hate her for.

She gave it her best, and after years of suffering and endless pain, she realized that it would never be enough for him.

She tried her best to keep him happy but little did she know he was never going to find happiness in her; for all he desired was beauty and the definition he carried was so different from hers.

But she's trying her best to recover. 

& she will. 😊

~ Be The Person You Wish Existed ~

But then she said:

Do not treat people the way they treated you.

Do not let them feel the way they made you feel, for it doesn't feel so good. 

You are not doing it for them but yourself. 

You know, you are going to be rewarded for it someday.

They may never realize it, and do not ever even expect them to realize. 

For you are not doing it for anyone, but yourself; she repeated.

Be patient, be kind and be generous.

Be the person you wish existed.

My mother she is. 

~ Some Feelings Don't Change ~

Some feelings don’t change,

Even when the people in them do.

Some memories stay with you for quite long,

& haunt you every now and then with its thrones.

You keep on wishing for better days,

But you could never let go off the pain it hold.

Discussion Forum for Piaget’s Theory Of Cognitive Development

Discussion Forum

HUMAN DEVELOPMET THEORIES

Introduction

Developmental psychology is a branch of psychology that studies physical, cognitive and social changes throughout the lifespan. The main aim of this assignment is to create a blog for one of the human development theory. Therefore, in this particular page, I would be focusing on the theory of cognitive development by Jean Piaget. It would be consisting of sub topics related to the title including a discussion about the cognitive development theory with its detailed aspects and the relationship between the different development stages and learning. It would also be focusing on the application of the theory to the classroom/teaching. Then, there will be a conclusion with a brief summary of the sub-topics that were presented. To end with, there will be a reference list along with all the materials that were used for completion of this assignment. To do this assignment, I used reference from various sources to prove my explanation towards each topic.